I have a confession to make. I kissed a 14 year old. Well, she was 4 months short of 15. I was 2 years and 9 months older than her at the time. Years later, we met as adults, grown and out of our childhood crushes, and as we sat talking, I wondered how her age didnt strike me at that time. It would be impossible to do that now, not being into unformed females. But I kissed a 14 year old once... I look at 14 year-olds now and gag at the thought.
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Lol, I hope you do gag..You should lol or you would find out how a cell looks :). Hope you are good, sent some posts to you.
Well, it's one of those youthful exuberances. We all had our experiences and fair shares. Mine was even a lil. bit worse..>Ssssh, don't tell anyone!
Emm...Well since you were 16 at the time, its unlikely you would have been attracted to your age mates....Rest easy
There would be an issue if you kissed a 14 year old NOW....
Phew! You were 16.....Thank God!
you are soooooooo silly! i saw the title i was like... oh no... say it aint so...
14year olds are a little harder to detect these days... just be careful!!! :-)
Thanks for the posts,T-Minx. When I look at girls of that age now, I can't quite figure where the attraction came from.
@ ugo- I thought 14 was a record...
@ uzo- hehe, uzo. It'd be a serious issue.
@ nyemoni- I was 16 o! Many years had passed before it struck me.
@ hawk-hehe, gotcha! what did you think at first?
... I'm not akon.
I was very disturbed to start wit until I got to the part where you mentioned the age differfence...good one!
i was about to call 911 when i saw what age u were!! chai!! i for faint..
common Groupie, dont be giving me heart attack like that!
and common again, you were 16! its only natural, who would you have kissed? a 20 year old?
meanwhile, dont forget your job oh!!!!
I wasn't afraid, I was expecting something like it. Great post though!
Today is 'Girl Whisperer'! Yay!
Ide.
Here I was thinking that our laspapi was not flying right. Turns out that he was 16 at the time. LOL!
Surely its alright for a 16 yr old to find a 14 yr old attractive.... Don't beat yourself up.
Now it would be cringe worthy, then..... we'll allow you.
Hi Oluwole, perhaps i am a little bit naive here. Did you kiss this 14-year old cute baby on the forehead, on her cheek(s), or was it rather a mouth-to-mouth resusitation. From an African Realist's perspective, when a guy kisses a girl in the mouth it tends to have a sexual connotation. In London (everywhere) - on the train in the tube on the bus in the taxi on the pelican in the pub etc etc people kiss ALWAYS. I watch and study and notice how they look in each other's eyes an touch-kiss kiss-touch again and again. then I think to myself, there is really no sexual undertone about this. To them it is a language a signal or attribute of care affection and infactuation. i don't see many black people propagate their kiss-smooch like that.
Oluwole, i just wonder to myself why you put this ENORMOUS 'confession' on your blog.
You did not tell us who you last kissed and what age they were - that would be a 'worthwhile and overwhelming' confession.
Well done.
Thanks, anon.
@ bimbylads- hehe!
@ ~mimi~ - sorry for the initial shock, ~mimi~. I haven't forgotten my job. You're winning B- Idols. They vote you out at their peril.
@ idemili- Thanks, goddess. G- Whisperer will be up soon.
@ in my head- flying straight and true, trust me. How've you been?
@ c'est moi- no intention to look at 16 year olds now. Cringe-worthy? I agree totally.
@ Olusola of London- Black people can't kiss without sexual undertones? Many might disagree. particularly females. I think, men, basically are the ones with the problem of a kiss for a kiss' sake. Women seem to like it.
As for the last time? I plead the 5th.
Hehehe@gagging at the thought now.
You were almost legal, so technically you kissed an illegal helpless little child.Bad bad Laspapi:D Okay i keed, 3months makes a huge difference, you did no terrible wrong.
thank you for "clearing" me, omosewa. Glad I won't enter any sex offenders list. Bill Clinton's on one by the way. hehe.
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